I had a series of bad coffee dates, men were not who they represented themselves to be. Photos were 10 years old 25 pounds less.
I had tried Eharmony and canceled a date before going because I knew based on our conversation that we were not compatible.
I had seen 7 photos of him. He looked attractive. He asked what I wanted to eat. I said I loved sushi & seafood. He chose a restaurant near his home and then felt it necessary to tell me what car he drove like I gave a shit 💩 as well as that he had a full head of hair. I had seen all his photos. I mean are these men operating with all their brains cells?
We had planned to meet in a week and the next day I woke up and realized I didn’t want to waste either of our time as I felt him to be insecure. So I texted him and canceled politely. He called and demanded an explanation. He had as he informed me made a reservation after all. Oh dear God.
Then I ran across a man on one of of the sites who was looking for a unicorn. If you haven’t seen the you tube of the crazy matrix unicorn look it up. It’s so good!!
We started a conversation and when I told him what I was looking for he of course offered to be my in between guy. So generous of him 🤣. As he was recently separated. He was handsome & to be honest I wasn’t certain what I wanted or was capable of yet. So we agreed to meet.
Sex was fantastic in the beginning because he had been deprived for so long and he wasn’t worried yet. When we are not in our heads and let go completely there is a wonderful mind body and soul connection. Then I made the mistake of saying I can’t do physical without emotional and sex changed. He got in his head a little. Sex wasn’t terrible. However it wasn’t as incredible as it had been in the beginning.
We saw each other once in a while, however he had a great deal of resistance to a relationship or consistency. I would hear from him now & again or I would text him.
The last time I saw him he had finalized his divorce and he had gotten in a relationship. She was out of town. He met me after signing the documents. We were still very attracted to each other. However he isn’t capable of making me his priority. And he was willing to cheat on his girlfriend while she was out of town.
In spite of all the evenings the dinners the conversations and the history, 3 1/2 years of history he really doesn’t have the character the depth of character that I would’ve hoped he had.
It’s so interesting we knew so much about the other, intimate details about our marriages and children yet we never had more then a couple over nights with each other.
I would go out and date & if my ego was bruised I would also call him. My theory has always been to get over one get under another. He was a great one to get under. I have to admit I was pretty disappointed when he changed the rules and got a girlfriend.
I will miss Teddy 🐻
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